Though they are not worthy of the other person's love, they should still get a chance. To have to admit that they cheated to the one they love seems like such a loving and heartbreaking move. I say this because to admit something so big is hard. Sure it is not a good thing whatsoever, but the couple should still be together and help eachother. Both hearts have been crushed. They way for their hearts to be all better (at least the person who got cheated on) is for the cheater to do everything in their power to prove to their partner that they truly do love them and that they really had no choice and did not want to hurt them. They will have to pick up their partner's amazing, loyal heart and put the pieces back one by one and it does not matter how long it will take for that amazing, but broken heart to heal. The truth is, that the cheater has to do everything in their power to heal the wounded. Cheating is not right, but to admit it.. That is the right thing to do. And another thing dear followers, Listen to your partner when they're worried because they have a reason to be. Think before you act. Listen to them and put yourself in your partner's shoes. Sometimes, it is too late but there really is not a "too late" in a true, loving relationship, and I believe that their relationship is the true, loving relationship. It is something unique, and infinite. Something that is meant to last. Forever and always.
♥ Once again: I am sorry, I love you. = three very different yet very powerful words ♥
A relationship is meant to be infinite. Relationships go through hell, but it's the real and true and infinite ones that get through hell and continue to be together. "You're not alone, and never will be because we are one, and our hearts are meant to be. Though they are shattered now, they will heal if WE both work together. We are meant to be. There isn't anything wrong with you. You are perfect in every way in my eyes. I love you. I am so sorry." This should be said to the one that has been cheated on. Everyone deserves a second chance. Even the miserable cheater who may seem heartless but who's heart was in fact breaking during the disgusting event because of forcing. But that is still no excuse. The act has been committed but there is a way for them to get through it. That way is for them to stick together and to be there for one another. The cheater to say "sorry" for the rest of their life to their love. I know I'm rambling on, but this is serious stuff! And also this is what I believe the song is about.
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This song I believe is about cheating. "I keep my promises, I'm fighting for you" I think is the line that shows this because if there was no cheating, then why fight if you already possess their heart? "I keep my promises, I did not mean to cheat boo I was forced, I had no choice. I'm fighting for you. I'm fighting for us." I think would have been a better line, because it shows how much the person does love them and would go to the end of the galaxies and back and a billion times after that for the one they love. "You need love tough enough to count on, so here I am" is just an amazing line. I think that this whole song is absolutely true and amazing and everything that relationships should be about. Support, Trust, Truth, Love. ♥
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OQ5Us6ZYCO0
"Cry With You"
When you try not to look at me
Scared that I'll see you hurting
You're not hiding anything, no
And frankly it's got me worried
Nobody knows you better than I do
I keep my promises, I'm fighting for you
You're not alone
I'll listen till your tears give out
You're safe and sound, I swear that I won't let you down
What's hurting you I, I feel it too
I mean it when I say
When you cry, I cry with you, with you
I'm not going any place
I just hate to see you like this
No, I can't make it go away
Oh, but keeping it inside won't fix it
I can't give you every answer that you need
But I wanna hear everything you wanna tell me
You're not alone
I'll listen till your tears give out
You're safe and sound, I swear that I won't let you down
What's hurting you I, I feel it too
I mean it when I say
When you cry, I cry with you, oh
Yeah, I cry with you
You need love tough enough to count on
So here I am
You're not alone
I'll listen till your tears give out
You're safe and sound, I swear that I won't let you down
What's hurting you I, I feel it too
I mean it when I say
When you cry, I cry
I mean it when I say
When you cry, I cry with you, oh
You're not alone, oh no, baby
Scared that I'll see you hurting
You're not hiding anything, no
And frankly it's got me worried
Nobody knows you better than I do
I keep my promises, I'm fighting for you
You're not alone
I'll listen till your tears give out
You're safe and sound, I swear that I won't let you down
What's hurting you I, I feel it too
I mean it when I say
When you cry, I cry with you, with you
I'm not going any place
I just hate to see you like this
No, I can't make it go away
Oh, but keeping it inside won't fix it
I can't give you every answer that you need
But I wanna hear everything you wanna tell me
You're not alone
I'll listen till your tears give out
You're safe and sound, I swear that I won't let you down
What's hurting you I, I feel it too
I mean it when I say
When you cry, I cry with you, oh
Yeah, I cry with you
You need love tough enough to count on
So here I am
You're not alone
I'll listen till your tears give out
You're safe and sound, I swear that I won't let you down
What's hurting you I, I feel it too
I mean it when I say
When you cry, I cry
I mean it when I say
When you cry, I cry with you, oh
You're not alone, oh no, baby
HI Rux! Just read your last few posts. I agree, "If You Told Me To" is a great song. The words are pretty powerful in that the courage one has profess his/her love for someone who is already taken and not know if it will ever be returned is huge. Also, knowing that the love he/she is offering is the best kind, you just want it to happen!
ReplyDeleteI like your emphasis on the three most powerful words - "I love you" and "I am sorry". Unfortunately we use them so loosely and so often, they really don't have impact. I guess we should just get better at distinguishing between hearing and meaning those words and REALLY hearing and meaning those words. Probably if we made an effort to do that, we might feel better about ourselves and those we love. Keep up the great posts Ruxandara. :) Ms. Morton